Have you ever wanted to learn how to tie a knot into your lover’s hair that acts as a rudimentary dog leash? Then have we got the instructional for you! And though it looks to be all pedagogical fun for Haley Cummings, Isis Love is not impressed. We’re sure she’ll wipe that smile right off Haley’s face. Probably with her pussy, too…

What can you learn from watching pornography? Wait, back that up. Is it a good idea to learn anything from pornography? For the most part, studying sex by watching porn is like trying to become a herpetologist by studying dragons, but there are some notable exceptions; sometimes, educators and pornstars join forces and create films that are as enlightening as they are arousing.

Giving a great blowjob is certainly important.  That’s why I talk about it so much and spend much of my life devoted to leading by example.  Of course, these skills and ideas are transferable and hopefully mutual.  That goes with out saying.  Beyond that, there’s the other side of the coin.  As much as it’s important to be a great giver of blowjobs (or any other kind of oral pleasure) it’s also extremely valuable to be a great recipient.  There are only a few things I’m going to hit on here, which don’t go unduly into specifics, as those are up to the individuals, but they all warrant deference.

I’m not outrightly saying that blowjobs are my sole raison d’être… That seems kind of wrong to me. I have so many passions. I love to make music, to create art, to explore French cooking, to let loose and game a bit.. But, when it comes to something that I can share with you all on Fleshbot, nothing beats a little blowjob how-to. Now, this isn’t to say that I’m going to give you every little tip and trick under the sun, because I don’t fundamentally believe that blowjobs (or any sex act) are one size fits all. There is so much nuance and room for exploration when it comes to a truly sensual blowjob, so I just want to foster that kind of curiousity and creativity. Sounds ambitious? You bet.

Sex on the first date: it’s the subject of much discussion, handwringing, and, of course, comedy t-shirts. Being the knowledgable, nonjudgmental libertines that we are, we think that sex on the first date is a perfectly fine thing–but we also think that, as with any sex act, you need to know what you’re getting into before you go ahead with it. So, sexy soldiers, let’s carry onward and examine the topic!

For some, booty calls are the stuff of legend; for others, a way of life. There’s no denying that when they’re good, they’re really good—but how do you pull off a booty call without committing a booty faux pas? Friends, that’s what we’re here for. As a team experienced both

India Reynolds wants you to be aware that sun protection is very important, and she’s willing to put in the legwork to make sure you’re safe this summer. She’s even taken it upon herself to demonstrate how to apply “sun cream.” We can’t figure out who India’s friend is, but

I flew all the way to New York to wrangle this DVD from Ottimo Massimo. No joke. I mean, I was coming to New York for other reasons too, but this was a big freaking deal. And whoa, Carol Queen totally surpassed my extremely high expectations. “Gush” is a guide

Celebrities: they’re just like us! They take naked pictures of themselves, and document their sexy times. The only difference is that when celebrities’ sexy photos inevitably wind up in the wrong hands, TMZ actually cares about it. (Trust us: we’ve sent TMZ tons of pictures of our genitals, and haven’t

Thighs pressed together, bodies pressed against one another. The double press is intimate, intense, and one of our favoritest ways to get it on (for real). Position Type: Intercourse What It’s Good For: Quite a few things, actually. Though the double press bears a close resemblance to that old standby,

In this Pleasure-Ed video, Dr. Carol Queen and a bevy of sexy G-Spot go-getters teach you how to tap into the powers (somewhat) hidden inside every vagina. Here’s a hint: it involves a lot of lube and some come-hither fingers. Gush: The Official Guide to the G-Spot & Female Ejaculation

Spooning (or The Lazy Sunday) is a nice, intimate way of getting oh so close to your partner. But sometimes you might want to, well, go a little bit deeper. Enter the slotted spoons. Position Type: Intercourse What It’s Good For: It’s the closeness of spooning, but with legs entwined

Sometimes it’s the little things in life that make a big difference: like, for instance, that little switch of the leg that changes a position from standard doggy style to the flying dog. Position Type: Intercourse What It’s Good For: Sure, it might seem like it’s the same thing as

A modified version of doggy style, sumo takes its name from the crouching position of the penetrating partner. Any other resemblance to sumo wrestling is purely coincidental. Position Type: Intercourse What It’s Good For: Sumo takes all the joys of doggy style, and adds in a more downward angle (excellent

Yet another classic sex position—but one that’s classic for a reason. Sometimes the best things in sex are the simple pleasures…like a lady on top of her partner, grinding away to orgasm. Position Type: Intercourse What It’s Good For: Common wisdom says that Cowgirl is a position where the lady

“What is it that men want?” asks jessica drake re: Blowjobs in Wicked’s new instructional DVD. “And how can we do it better?“ jessica drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex: Fellatio Studio: Wicked Director: jessica drake Starring: jessica drake, Bobbi Starr, Allie Haze, Danny Mountain, Bobbi Starr, Eric Masterson, Jordan Kingsley,

Our sister site Jezebel has a nice little guide for girls who are interested in taking a strap-on to their boyfriends’ butts. A guide that’s full of advice from me! Go read it. Now. [Jezebel]

Though it may not have the most elegant of names, doggy style is easily one of our favorite positions…and we’re pretty sure we’re not alone here. How many other sex positions have received a musical tribute from The Bloodhound Gang? Position Type: Intercourse What It’s Good For: What it lacks

Photographing naked women (with their knowledge) takes a combination of skill, finesse, and audacity. To do so for two decades without getting into fights with boyfriends is even more of an accomplishment. Michael Charles tells us how in “Money Shots.” Charles sent along these snaps from his new e-book “Money

Can’t decide which one of you should be on top this time? Why not split the difference, and do it sitting up? Position Type: Intercourse What It’s Good For: The Simple Sit combines the closeness and eye contact of missionary with the girl-in-control aspect of cowgirl. Depending on your body