Dearest friends, we’re going to be in Atlantic City all weekend at Exxxotica Expo 2013, and thanks our continued partnership with Headquarters NY, we’re bringing Krista Ayne, Lux Suicide, Jayden Cole, Jayden Jaymes and Nikki Delano with us! We hope you’ll stop by, say hello, chat with the darlings at our booth (710 is the place to be), and throw some good vibes our way.

Hey, are you going to be in New York City next week? Good! Then that means you can check out two amazing analog artists expressing their erotic selves in the same gallery next week! Our beloved Ellen Stagg is teaming up with renowned vinyl artist Hiroshi Kumagai to celebrate the blossoming lust of spring with a show called “Seeing Double.” We’re going to be there and you should too!

Next Friday, we’re having our monthly burlesque show, Fleshbot Friday at Headquarters Gentlemen’s Club, and Lisa Ann is going to be our very special host. We saw her at AEE, and as soon as she learned we’re with Fleshbot, she started going on about how stoked she is to host. We’re so touched! She’s a legend and she digs us! So here’s a shameless plug out of the mouth of Lisa Ann.

Headed to Vegas for AEE/AVN this week? Well, we know one party you won’t want to miss (hint: it’s the one we’re throwing).

The weather on the east coast has been, um, a little wacky these past few weeks–and it’s definitely caused a few (and sometimes more than a few) headaches and difficulties for people throughout the Northeast. But if you think that that’s gonna stop a fleet of pornstars from descending on New Jersey, think again. Exxxotica NJ is totally on this weekend–and, what’s more, they’re doing their part to help the victims of Sandy. (Exxxotica NJ)

In New York? Looking for something to do tonight? Head on over to Headquarters Gentlemen’s Club at 9pm for the latest installment of Fleshbot Fridays, New York’s hottest pornstar-hosted burlesque show. Tonight’s edition is sponsored by EvilAngel.com‘s “Voracious,” and features the stunning Darenzia, with performances by Bea B Hart, Harvest Moon, and Victoria Privates.

Hey, Bay Area homies! If you’re not doing anything tonight, you should head to the Castro Theater to see Stephen Elliott and Lorelei Lee’s love letter to the porn industry and San Francisco, “About Cherry.” It’s got boobs galore, big name celebrities, and it’s playing at 7:00 and 9:30 for one night only!

We’ve been talking about “About Cherry” for months now…and we’re pleased to announce that we’re able to offer free admission to a screening of the film this Tuesday, 9/18, to 100 lucky readers!

Something shifted in the universe when Cum and Glitter was formed. Stars aligned. The sky got wet. Deeply, deeply wet. The air must have been soaked with desire. The entire bay area smelled like delicious, fresh, horny pussy. Cum and Glitter is one of my favorite things.

Do you like free parties? Do you like Stoya? Do you like amazing burlesque? Do you like free Fleshlights? How about drink specials, sexy trivia, and eye popping magic? If you said yes to any (or all!) of the above, and you’re going to be in New York City this Friday, then friends: you have no choice but to stop by Headquarters Gentleman’s Club for Fleshbot Friday.

Are you in New York? Do you like things that are fun…and also involve nudity and alcohol? Well, then: come on down to Headquarters Gentlemen’s Club this Friday, July 27, for an evening that’s not to be missed.

Artist Jim Rugg is an indie comics darling who’s rather talented with a ball point pen and notebook paper. He’s also a dude with a very filthy mind. Put those together, and you get some sweet art–soon to be on display at LA’s iam8bit gallery–that we’re very thrilled to be able to preview here.

Tonight is the Feminist Porn Awards’ screening event, “Public. Provocative. Porn. The Year’s Best in Feminist Film”.

I’m off to Toronto for the Feminist Porn Awards, presented by Canadian feminist sex toy store Good For Her. I’ve made the trip each year to celebrate the accomplishments of my peers and network with folks who are making and marketing alternative visions of sex.

Back in April, when we were partying our way through the Feminist Porn Awards, we caught a sneak peek of Cheryl Dunye’s “Mommy Is Coming”–and we’ve been dying to see the full film ever since. Dunye (who you may remember as the director of “The Watermelon Woman,” “Stranger Inside,” and “The Owls”) has brought together a stellar cast of hot queer talent for a sex-filled screwball comedy set in the glorious city of Berlin.

Well if you happen to read Fleshbot, then you are probably a porn fan on some level. And if you happen to be a porn fan on any level, then you should really be in Las Vegas this week. And, if you are in Las Vegas this week, then here

If you’re in or around L.A. on December 1st, we urge you to bring your fine ass self (and a little cash) to the House of Virtue for a party/gallery showing/even bigger party benefitting AIDS research, awareness, and prevention! Come on, it’s the nicest and probably funnest (yep, funnest) thing

Fans in the know are doubtless aware that the multi-talented Stoya has added a new trick to her playbook—the gorgeous art of taking her clothes off while suspended from an aerial hoop (also known as lyra). But did you know that Stoya is totally, definitely maybe performing at a venue

We already showed you the official event photos from the Fleshbot Awards…but those didn’t really give you a taste for how down and dirty this party really got. For that, you have to step inside the photo booth/make out room…which, as luck would have it, we have some pretty awesome

This past Friday, we held the 2nd Fleshbot Awards—and what a glorious night it was. With everyone from Alan Cumming to Chyna to Joanna Angel coming onstage to accept awards, and a slew of amazing performers dazzling (and titillating!) the audience, it was truly a night to remember. For those