Well, friends, we have reached the end (sad face, bottom lip sticking out). This is my last post for Dylan Ryan week here on Fleshbot. I have loved guest editing, writing for you and sharing a bit of my life with you. I hope that if you missed any of my posts that you will go back and catch up, each day was its own special theme based on a part of my life and what I’m into. To say a proper goodbye, I made you a video message from set today. Wishing you a great weekend and a future full of hot sex. Xxo.

Since you may now be in a BDSM state of mind…and since it is Friday, after all, I have made a little list of my favorite BDSM porn films. Some of these true classics and go way back to when bondage, sadism, submission and dominance were even more racy things to show on film. Some of them are educational and will direct you in what to do in your own play. All are made to get you through this weekend and facilitate your future BDSM adventures.

It’s past midnight and I am sitting here reflecting on another amazing day at work, a day spent shooting a lot of great sex that I can’t wait for you to see. It was an extra special day for me because I got to shoot my first cuckholding scene, a scene where I played a woman fucking another man while her husband unwillingly watched, tied up and helpless. It was incredibly hot and during the breaks in the scene, I found myself thinking that I wanted to write a bit about the experience of subbing and the experience of domming; how they are different and the similarities that they share.

Welcome back you patient readers.  As promised, my final post for this day of The Upper Floor at Kink.com shenanigans.  And enough talking, onward to the sex! Also, this is very #NSFW as opposed to the other stuff that was mostly #NSFW.

Couldn’t get enough of my tour of The Upper Floor? Well lucky you, we are just getting to some of the juiciest bits and all the requisite porno nudity and sex making! Yay! To start out this second post, I thought I’d show you the true candid stuff, what truly goes on before we start shoot when we are all being our dorky selves: vagina puppets. Enjoy! I know I did!

Hello Sexy Readers!

Today, I would like to take you on a behind-the-scenes journey of the set that I frequent the most, The Upper Floor at Kink.com!  I had an amazing shoot there last night and made sure to catch the on-camera action with my camera as well.  In today’s three part series, I’ll introduce you to the infamous Upper Floor location, a few of the sexy people I get to work with and show you some of the hotness that we shot last night.  Welcome to my slave world, it’s a rough job but thank goodness I get to do it.  Enjoy! Xxo.

So as you may be able to tell, I’m on a “good sex” kick today, having started the morning out with talking to you about my love for yoga and showing you how you can incorporate it into your lives, sex and otherwise. To round out this healthy day, I thought I’d share with you another of my passions, good food.

Here it is folks, as promised, your very own mini tutorial of yoga for sex! As a yoga instructor, my favorite thing to do is teach yoga that is applicable and can be used to make our lives better. Personally, I have always thought that yoga and sex go hand in hand and I am a walking, talking testament to the fact that yoga can improve your sex life as it has certainly improved mine, both personally and professionally.

Hello to everyone on this Happy Humpday! We are smack dab in the middle of our week together and I think this calls for something special, no? I’ve had a few people tweet me and send me emails, commenting on my posts thus far and making some special requests for things they would like to see and read. A popular request has been for me to talk about my love of and involvement with yoga.

I struggled long and hard with what to bring you for my last post today, queer history, more posts on queer porn, some ideas about queer culture…? After a lot of thought, I realized that if you’re curious about those things, you can always do the Googles and this site right here; Fleshbot.com is an awesome fount of everything queer and sexy so look around here for more of what you want. From me however, what you’re going to get is a little queer story. A fantasy of mine, if you will. And I’ll tell you a little secret that this here story has been modified into script form and is in the works with a very awesome up-and-coming queer porn company. So stay tuned, if you like what you read, you just may be able to fap to it on your computer screen one day soon. Until then, fap to it in your minds, under your work desks, and at home later when you re-read it. Obviously. XXO

So now that you’ve read a little about queer identity (how did that go for you?) (what? You didn’t read it? Go read the post right before this. Now. Go!), I think you’ve earned a moment of queer hilarity. So, my friends, I offer you up, as a very queer gesture, “The Shocker.”

Welcome to day two of my week here at Fleshbot.com! I decided that since I am known quite a bit for my queer porn work, I would dedicate an entire day to all things queer and sexy. As a bit of an introduction, I am reposting a piece of my writing from a few years back, my first attempt to explain what it meant to be queer and in porn, an attempt to put words to my identity. It’s been awhile since I wrote this and a bit has changed; I have talked a lot more about being queer so fewer and people ask for me to talk about it, I’m less in the place of figuring out what it means and more just being, I’m also no longer a graduate student, I have graduated. Also, some things haven’t changed: I think I’m probably even more queer now than when I wrote this. So here you are, welcome to Queer Day by Dylan here on Fleshbot.

As I was spending quality time with my laptop last night, thinking about and writing about sex, I found myself motivated to put on some music that could function as the soundtrack to my sexy blogging when, Voila! the idea for this post hit me right between the labia! Songs to bone down to! Who among us hasn’t found themselves in a sexual situation where music played some part in the success, failure, awkwardness or arousal level if the experience?!?

Continuing with the theme of my favorites, this next post is dedicated to one of my favorite parts of sex; the toys that can be used to make it out of this world. In an effort to help you get to know me better and also to add a little something to your sex lives, here are my top five sex toys and why I like them. Now keep in mind that the reasons I like them are, of course, me specific and the ways I use them could be very different from what you might get out of them. They are mere suggestion but also toys that I feel are full of possibility. Happy fucking, y’all. XXO

Hi There.

I’m Dylan Ryan and I will be your guest blogger this whole week here on Fleshbot.com. It’s an honor to blog for one of my favorite websites and have the chance to share my corner of the industry with you. Now, it occurs to me that while some of you might be fans of my work, others of you loyal Fleshbot readers might not be familiar with me at all. In order to bring everyone up to speed and tell you why the hell you should care about what I write all week; here is a little bit about me and what I’m into.