Jay Loves Ball Busting
Fetish performer Jay Wimp is known and loved by fem dom fans for being able to take all of the abuse that the women of Kink's Divine Bitches dole out onto him. He is an intelligent, thoughful, sweet guy and oh, he loves what he does.
What kind of guy were you back in high school? Who did you hang out with/date?
"I was an average guy in high school who did a little bit of everything. I played sports, video games, partied, experimented with drugs, did well enough in my academics to go to college, hung out with friends. Normal stuff like that. I mostly hung out with other troublemakers like myself. I didn’t do any dating, was too wrapped up still fantasizing about getting kicked in the balls."
Were you a porn/fetish fan before you got into the industry? Who were your favorite porn stars/favorite porn movies/fetish movies/fetish sites?
"Yes, particularly a fan of the femdom genre ever since I had access to a computer and a search engine; and still to this day haven’t indulged in watching any other kind of porn for my personal enjoyment. I’ve tried to keep my tastes varied - a few of the sites whose content I enjoyed time and time again were Ballbusting World from the UK, Divine Bitches, and Femdom Empire."
What kind of scene have you found is your favorite kind to do?
"Well other than obviously loving anything to do with ballbusting because it’s my personal fetish, I am quite fond of strap-on scenes and enjoy being a total anal slut, constantly trying to improve and expand my abilities."
What/who do you want to do on-camera that you haven’t done yet?
"While there really isn’t too much left that I haven’t done on camera, I’m interested in dabbling a bit more into extreme CBT."
Who is your favorite performer to work with and why?
"My partner Sablique Von Lux is my favorite performer to work with because of our level of trust which allows us to push the envelope of what we do. We also have a lot of fun coming up with weird and crazy ideas for clips to perform."
You respond to your fans a lot on Twitter. What do you like most about talking to your fans on social media?
"I’m actually guilty of not interacting with my fans as much as I should but I would like to change that and try to be more engaging. I have gotten a number of nice messages from fans over the years though and I am thankful to have their support."
How did you become a fetish performer? What led you down that career path?
"I first started making super short ballbusting clips with a girlfriend a long time ago. We posted them on Fetlife and got a lot of responses from people who said we should open our own store, which we did. I then applied to shoot for Kink.com and went from there. I had always had my fetishes/kinks and in college, I studied film production. When I graduated, I naturally gravitated towards wanting to merge the two, and hence, my career in porn became a reality."
What do you most want to achieve in the industry?
"What I do is a labor of love. The only thing I want to achieve is to be able to continue to make a living for myself and remain happy."
What is one thing you would teach a man who wanted to be a better sexual partner?
"Keep an open mind to always be willing to explore. Also, bend your knees and spread your cheeks."
What do you think are "must-have" DVDs for your fans?
"While I have performed for a number of different sites over the years, some of the best work I’ve done can be found on either Kink or Femdom Empire."
What do you like to do for fun?
"For fun, I spend a lot of time watching movies and TV shows. Relaxing and doing nothing is also a favorite; it provides a necessary contrast to the high-intensity performances when I’m in front of the camera. Simply put, I like being lazy."
What are your favorite fetishes to explore on camera?
"I always enjoy exploring the spectrum of ballbusting, from sensual to extreme. What more do you expect from a ballbusting enthusiast?"
Who are your role models in porn/the fetish world?
"Lance Hart, Deviant Kade, and Jason Ninja are all male performers who have primarily done work as a submissive and have had longevity and great success with their careers. They are all hard-working, talented individuals, and I would be lucky to achieve half of what any of them have done."
What is the best mainstream movie you have seen recently?
"I mostly watch obscure B-horror films. Some of my recent favorites that I’ve watched were The Greasy Strangler, Rubber, ABC’s of Death 1 and 2, and Tokyo Gore Police."
How about the best porno movie? Is there someone whose movies you like to watch who is working now?
"I don’t think I can pinpoint a favorite porno movie of mine but I currently enjoy watching the content that Nikki Whiplash from the UK produces.
What is coming up for you?
"Continuing to work on my own site Ballbusting Beauties, and other personal projects. Always happy to bring my best whenever I get booked for other sites as well."
If you could fuck any celebrity, who would it be?
"Too busy getting kicked in the balls by porn stars to care or fantasize about fucking a celebrity."
What single piece of advice would you give a brand new male submissive performer?
Is there anything you want to say to your fans here at Fleshbot?
"Without my fans, I would be nothing. Getting kicked in the balls over and over again by beautiful women wouldn’t be possible without your support. Thank you."
All of the images here appear courtesy of Kink.