Twenty Questions with Cowboys4Angels Founder Garren James

Cowboys4Angels Serves Women's Wants and Needs

The sixth season of the Showtime reality series "Gigolos" begins on March 17th and if you haven't checked out what these men do for women, you really should.  The male escort firm Cowboys4Angels is the star of the series--a company that owner/founder Garren James has built into a successful venture with branches in eleven cities.  The company provides straight male escorts for women who need non-judgmental, discrete companionship.  Gents, if you want to learn how to attract and keep a woman, there is a lot of valuable info in this series.  Ladies, soak up the eye candy.  There's plenty here.  Here's what James had to say about his work and his life.

What kind of guy were you back in high school? Who did you hang out with/date?

"Back in high school, I was a jock. I was a pretty late bloomer, so I was pretty shy with the ladies. I did not develop my dating skills until I went to college."

Are you a porn fan at all? Who are your favorite stars?

"That is a tricky question! My wife of three years now is Colombian, and if I look at other women I get in very big trouble. Getting caught watching porn would not go over well in my house."

How did you initially become a male escort?

"I was introduced to this business by a girlfriend who was running a large female-for-men agency. I learned the business from her and she suggested I start a men-for-women agency. At first it was tough finding good men, so I took on some of the appointments. I got many pointers from all the women at her agency. It was a very wonderful experience and I loved making women smile. I often joke with my wife about going back up on the site, but the Colombian blood boils when I speak of it!"

What is the best experience you have had as a company owner?

"The best experience is being able to make our clients happy. Some of our clients just are adventuresses and love the idea of being in the power role by hiring someone. Others are traveling to a new city and hire someone to show them around for a fun evening. Then there are the ones that I love getting calls from. The client who really need our service. A lot of these special clients tell me they are going through a divorce and don’t have the ability to start something new with someone due to the battle they are involved in with their ex. To them, this no-strings-attached concept is perfect for them until that chapter in their life is over. Others are finished with a divorce and feel they are rusty in the dating scene. They want to hire a professional to get them back on their feet. The ones I love the most are the ones who have suffered due to some real life traumatic situation and use the agency as a stepping stone back into the dating world. These are the ones where I really feel like I am making a difference in their world."

Can you share any stories of particularly memorable clients?

"There has been so many that it is hard to pick out just one. But I can say that one sticks out in my mind the most. Instead of me telling you the story I will cut and paste the email she sent me:

I'm writing this email a little more formally than our usual text because I want to make sure you know how important this is.
This Wednesday June 5th will be the 2 year anniversary of my husband's death. I know you are sooo busy you probably don't remember the first time I called you in September of 2011, just 3 months after he died. But I want you to know that our conversation (brief as it was) changed so much for me.

It put into motion a series of event that has forever changed the direction of my life...for the better I believe.

After talking to you that day I was determined to make my life a better one and meet the amazing Nick Hawk (who I did NOT know at the time was on the show fyi).

By the time I called you about a year later I had lost 100 lbs and was so excited, I also had seen the show by then and knew he was somewhat of a star and so were YOU! :) I've lost a total of 135 and to be honest I don't think I could have continued without the support from Nick, keeping me positive keeping me focused. He has encouraged me to try out for show after show! He knows I'll be a big star! :)

Anyway I just wanted to let you know that as weird as it is, I consider you my friend, I know we text and email and even the occasional drunk conversation but the last year has been just great. You have been patient and kind to me.
I don't think you will know how much I appreciate all you did to make my birthday so much fun! It was truly a magical night.
Thank you for being a friend and confidant this last year. Thank you for putting up with my twitter fo paux's and just general pain in the ass.
I am pretty sure I am your biggest pain in the ass... LOL (I seem to have that effect on people!)
The man I chose is truly a special person, Nick is and will always be a very special friend to me and I am so glad I made that call.
So think about me on June 5th know it is the worst day of my life, but also know you have helped me create so many special memories with such a special man. I am in a totally different place this year compared to last year. You my friend have been a big part of that, it’s not easy to keep me stable and you can ONLY imagine what poor Nick has to go through LOL....I'm not easy on him all the time!
But seeing his face light up when he was talking to you and your friend about me the other night assured me that he really does like me....I feel very special."

You are very active on Twitter. What do you like most about reaching your fans/clients through social media?

"Social media is fun to hear people’s thoughts on episodes, and it helps us make the show that much better. I am the sole creative consultant of the show so I use the comments to help shape a better season. "

What’s your favorite position to fuck a woman in and why does it get you off?

"My wife knows the answer to this question, and we will keep it there! "

How has being the owner of Cowboys4Angels changed your life?

"Running the biggest and best straight male companion company comes with great responsibility. At first, we were written about as our agency being a myth by male reporters. It was very sexist for them to have it be OK for men to be able to hire women, or even men, but if a women was to hire a man, it had to be fake. I now take all hiring of men and client customer service of great importance. I handle everything so I work from noon until 3 AM every day. This agency has made me a better person and I take the business of making women smile very seriously."

What is one thing you would teach another man who wanted to be a better sexual partner?

"Listen, listen, listen. Those are the best skills in become a better sexual partner. Every woman does not like the same thing. Ask questions and learn what she likes."

What are the best things about being a male escort?

"The men are obviously being paid so I never want to imply that it’s not a service but there are not too many jobs out there where your job purpose is to make women happy." 

Do you have plans to expand your business to more cities in the coming year?

"Yes. I would love to keep expanding and finding new men in different cities who meet our agency standards. We have had over 12,000 employment requests from other major cities. I am very picky on who we will represent." 

How well do you think that “Gigolos” captures the reality of what life is like for a male escort?

"The only thing the show is missing is the longer appointments the men go on. So many of the appointments women make are for longer trips to different locations. We just don’t have the resources to film the weekend and week-long client trips all over the world."

What is the most common thing that women ask of from their escorts?

"Attention! So many women complain that the dates they go on the men are lacking attention. They are on the phone or have wandering eyes or thinking about work or just not that into the date. Our clients want to feel special from the moment the men arrive and we deliver!" 

How would you encourage a woman who might want to hire a male escort but is too shy/reserved or has apprehensions about doing so?

"Many callers say “this is the first time and I am nervous.” My immediate response is don’t worry, this is not our first time and you will be with a trained professional. Sit back, relax, and let us do what we do best."

What is the best mainstream movie you have seen recently?

"Meet Joe Black."

What is your favorite mainstream Hollywood movie about escorting?

"American Gigolo."

What do you like to do for fun?

"My favorite thing to do is play with my 10-month year old boy/girl twins. They capture all my free time and I would not have it any other way."

If you could provide escort services for any celebrity, who would you like to provide that service to?

"We have provided services for celebs and Forbes 500 listers and it has been a fun experience. But personally? If Sofia Vergara ever got divorced and needed an escort, I would have to possibly chat with the wife about coming out of retirement. Of course just for one night!"

What do you think that viewers can learn most from watching “Gigolos”?

"Life is short. Have fun! The show captures women who are on an adventure, and they always leave Las Vegas with a smile on their face."

Is there anything you want to say to Cowboys4Angels fans here at Fleshbot?

"Stay adventurous and if you see me on the street say hello! I will share the secret of who my favorite porn star is. Just don’t tell my wife!"