Sasha Grey Is Nobody’s Victim

Sasha Grey is many things: pornstar, model, actress, musician… but she most definitely, emphatically, is not a victim. And she doesn’t take kindly to insinuations that she’s doing anything other than exactly what she wants.

We doubt that Jenni Perez meant to raise the ire of the lovely Ms. Grey while penning a sex column for her college newspaper, the Daily Nexus. But Jenni Perez should have known better than to slander the name of Sasha Grey. In a column titled “Fake Orgasms Facilitate No Fun,” she likened Sasha’s performances to an eighteen year old faking orgasm; a few weeks later, she made a snide remark about Sasha when discussing her distaste for swallowing semen. But Jenni Perez apparently underestimated Sasha Grey.

To make a long story short: upon learning about the articles, which had made their way around the blogs, Sasha decided to fight back, penning a letter to the editor that ran in yesterday’s edition of the Daily Nexus. Some highlights:

I am neither ashamed or reluctant to admit what I do is performance art… This resonates two of my primary objectives in the adult business… one: challenge the idea of what women are supposed to like or be like in bed, and two: most of the porn I used to watch was boring and I wanted to make it more fulfilling for myself and viewers. These statements were made in order to challenge the one dimensional, romanticized Hollywood-idealized perception of “couples friendly sex”.

I am a very sexually healthy young woman and I take pride in the liberation of female sexuality, I have a cause, I am determined, and I am a hard worker (pun intended). As a sex symbol, with an intellectual stance, I am and will continue to be vilified, and I am ok with that…in fact I am content; it gives me the opportunity to shed the light on the darker areas of sex and validate the insecurities of sexually repressed women. The days of victimized, disturbed porn stars (and civilian women) are fading away… I am the new breed.

If this whole “porn blogging” thing doesn’t work out for us, we’re strongly considering submitting an application to be head priest in Sasha Grey’s Church of Sashatology . Do you think we could get paid for that?

· Sasha Grey Speaks Out (dailynexus.com)
· Fake Orgasms Facilitate No Fun (dailynexus.com)
· Drink It Up or Spit It Out: The Fellator’s Dilemma (dailynexus.com)
· Porn Star Talks Sex, Fetishes and Pushing the Envelope aka My Opinion Editorial (myspace.com)
· Photo by Richard Kern (newnudecash.com)

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  • Jamo

    The paradigm shift regarding the definition of porn is exciting to watch and I’m excited to personalities like Sasha Grey and Stoya that really participate in their industry and break down barriers. Power to the women.

  • BBsinead

    Good for her. :)

  • fragile
  • dirtybacon

    This is kinda off topic, but reading the article on swallowing, it mentions the known art of drinking pineapple juice to sweeten the semen…

    The question I have, does anyone know how much time and quantity is needed? I mean, is it: “hang on babe, I am running to the 7-11, but keep that thought”, or is it more “hmmm… I have these 8 red Xes on my calendar, so I should be tasting fruity tomorrow around noon.”

    anyone?

  • hodayathink is walking in the glow of love

    That, ladies and gentlemen, is why you don’t talk shit about people in newspapers, even if you think they’ll never read them.

  • Anonymous

    As much as I like, (or used to like, sort of ) watching her fuck, and as much as I liked most of her reply, I’m tired of her using the word “intellectual.” It doesn’t actually fit her since her writing is always so amateur and defensive. She’s not interested in being dumb and she isn’t dumb, but her words always suggest that likes talking about thought more that she actually thinks. She’s edgy, but in a humorless and immature way, and with dicks in her ass.

  • WoreItWell

    “I am the new breed.” Ha! I fucking love her.
    ALL HAIL THE NEW FLESH!!!

  • sam991

    Call me sentimental but this seems appropriate:

    Sasha, Bella and Stoya are pushing us forward. Not just in terms of sexuality but also intelligent mainstream integration.

  • MindTricked

    I loved Sasha’s response. It was just dripping with intelligence and well-thought-out argument. I wonder if she was ever on a debate team… or if she’s just cool like dat.

  • WalterPater

    Oh my stars and garters! Don’t young women writing for college newspapers these days have something better to do with their time than make fun of gainfully employed porn stars, like finding work for themselves?

  • Anonymous

    Sasha strikes me as extremely attractive and charismatic. As awful as it sounds, most people who get off to someone’s porn regularly regularly; view that same person as trash. For example, the Fox News interview where Bill O’Reilly tried to crucify Jenna Jameson and then asks her for copies of her videos after the show. Many people’s attitudes and reactions to adult film stars are generally not positive, and unfortunately, most of the “well wishers” are waiting in line – hoping to score. I don’t agree with everything WayneCyparissus has said, but he makes a very good point to support my argument when he says, “She’s edgy, but in a humorless and immature way, and with dicks in her ass”. People base your character on your actions and associates, regardless of your intelligence. It’s hard to understand the reasoning behind why someone would willingly participate in a “gang-bang” or put herself in a position where she may be exposed to numerous health risks. I’m not saying that sex workers should not be treated with respect, but I do think that the issue needs to be approached realistically. Wrong or not, the opinions of the writer in the Daily Nexus are, unfortunately, the norm.