@LindsayJoy’s MBP is into S+M:
i’m not so sure that it’s easy, lindsay…i’ve never done a study , but i too have had dreams/daydreams/fleeting fantasies about being raped. of course, i don’t get physically hurt, or emotionally violated in these fantasies, and the small group of men that hold me down and fuck me repeatedly in many positions are always buffed and young. go figure. perhaps i have a desire to be sexually dominated? give up my control of sexual intercourse to an individual or group of men? i’ve never BEEN raped, but i’ve certainly thought about it like most women. sometimes i put myself in risky situations, like sunbathing in isolated areas where it increases the possibility. i do feel a heightened sense of sexual excitement from being naked outdoors in the sun, but i always assumed that was just a physical thing. it’s very confusing, and i’d be interested to read anything about rape fantasies that other women might have. like yours, if you have them. if you don’t want to post them, my email is on my site. lisa