I applaud the firefighter’s go-get-’em approach to dating & mating. It is rare (in some circles, at least) for men today to pursue that which they want, relying instead on their sensitivo rep to get action for them, but while women may indicate they would prefer the shy, emotive goofs that populate certain quarters of Omaha, Neb., & Williamsburg, Brooklyn, (or is it Hoboken, NJ, now?), they still will end up with the alpha-male archetype. So, pursue, pursue, pursue… & that might well include “showing it to her”.